My Wedding

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For this entry, I want to discuss about one of most significant critical thinking standards it is clarity. If we're not clarify something it will give vagueness to others people. This thing happened on my wedding ceremony.

I got married on August 2014. It was a greatest things that happened in my life. I still unbelievable that I'm married now. Alhamdulillah I'm so happy with my current life. I suddenly remember incident had happened during my ceremony. My wife is Johorean and I come from Pahang. Even both of us come from same race, but there is a bit different culture. 

I really don't know what a "berinai night" and my wife not explain for that event. I thought "berinai night" is just to add some henna on my finger and it just a happen like that and I don't know that I have to bring all my family together. It shows that I'm vague about the "berinai night". This misunderstanding occur when my wife expected that my family and I know about the "berinai night" culture. I does not ask from my wife to explain further.

I thought I can go alone and let my family have a rest. My wife expected that we have a same culture and me or my family know about this. "Berinai night" normally held on night on solemnization day. I thought that on that night me and family can get a rest after long journey, but I was wrong. Suddenly my wife called me and asked either I was get ready or not. I'm shocked! Ready for what? I just can use a t-shirt right? 

Me and my family a bit clumsy because we have to get ready because that event will be held around 15 minutes more. Fortunately homestay and my wife house is not too far. On that night we have a small ceremony and it accompanied with 'kompang'. Oh, I just got to know how was it is. This is my first marriage so I dont know how. Maybe for the second time it getting easy for me (Just kidding) Haha!

Family and I came late for that event, but it just happened. The sad things on that night is, we doesn't have a photographer on that night because I was sponsored by my brothers for photography and my brother for surely don't know about "berinai night" and he is not booked it. If I know what is "berinai night" this things could not happen but it's ok the important thing is "we're enjoy"!